Two working parents with three boys, 8, 6, and 3. Kids do well with new people as long as they have space and activities. The 6 year old has spina bifida and can’t feel when he has to go to the bathroom. He wears pull ups and is pretty good and changing and cleaning himself.

Simply watch the kids, get food for them, make sure they’re safe and getting along as much as possible. Let the oldest express his creativity as long as he cleans up and doesn’t eat upstairs.