Maggie is 3 and Theo will be turning 1 in August. Tiff works full time and Jake is the primary caregiver.

Jake is physically disabled, making everyday chores very difficult.

Maggie and Theo are generally pretty chill, happy kids. We parent with the philosophy that even though kids are stuck inside bodies that aren't good at much yet, they're still full humans, and therefore they're just as deserving of respect and empathy as adults. But, yes, they still need to follow our rules.
We're looking for a mother's helper to help with the everyday chores. We will also need help with childcare now and again, but the goal of hiring someone to help is to basically free us up to spend time with our family on vacation instead of cleaning up after them.
We will be visiting Jake's parents in Great Barrington for about a month. It's a big house, but the mother's helper isn't expected to clean everything - just help with the day-to-day chores.