We are a family of four that just moved here from NewYork. My wife and I are both in the restaurant industry so there will be some late nights as well as some flexibility needed on the schedule. Maxx the oldest is on the spectrum so any experience there is a huge benefit. Bedtime for both is around 7:30/8 so a lot of the night will be just making sure they stay asleep! Can’t wait to meet you!
Make dinner for both the boys. Both are not picky eaters at all so it’s not bad. They both get a shower/bath before bed. Read the youngest a book before putting him down and both are sleep trained so once you close the door they know it’s time to head for bed.