My daughter has history of colic when she was newborn until 6 months. Because of it, we have to give her so many cuddles and attention. Now, that she is a year old. She hasn't learned to be independent on her own. She cries hysterically when putting her down in either her playpen or crib. My husband and I are having a hard time putting her to bed on time, doing chores and other responsibilities. We are both working full time.